While divorce rates vary depending on where you are in the world, here in the United States, between 40 to 50% of marriages end in divorce. While this figure can be startling, it’s important to remember there are still those marriages that manage to stand the test of time. There are plenty of couples living in an assisted living facility still very much in love and committed to their marriage. In other words, not all hope is lost.
Most people would like to believe that their marriage will last. One of the best ways to ensure that your marriage survives is by knowing some of the most common reasons why marriages end. That way, you can observe your own marriage and determine whether you’re headed for a split or not. Here are some of the most common reasons that couples divorce.
Lack of Communication
Poor communication is one of the leading causes of the dissolution of a marriage. When two people are incapable of effectively communicating with each other, arguments arise and misunderstandings can lead to resentment.
Over time, the lack of communication starts to create distance between the couple and unresolved conflicts eventually erode their love for each other. From bickering to full-fledged arguments, a lack of communication is often the cause. It may take a few years, or a few decades, but eventually communication issues will destroy the foundation of a marriage.
While some relationship experts believe that cheating itself doesn’t cause relationships to end, but rather cheating is a symptom of a deeper issue within a marriage, infidelity is one of the leading causes of couples divorcing.
Having an extramarital affair is often too traumatizing for the couple to recover from, and the trust is never restored. While some couples are able to move forward, others ultimately make the decision to end things.
While money isn’t everything in life, it plays an important role in building a life with your partner. If two spouses aren’t able to see eye to eye when it comes to their finances, eventually it will start to create conflict. Disagreements about spending habits or disparities in how much one spouse makes compared to the other often results in a breakdown of the marriage.
Intimacy is an extremely important part of a romantic relationship. While physical intimacy is undoubtedly important, emotional intimacy is too. Each person in the couple needs to feel a sense of connection to form a healthy marriage.
A lack of physical intimacy paired with emotional intimacy will ultimately lead to dissatisfaction. It’s important to keep in mind that not everyone has the same requirements when it comes to intimacy, so marrying someone who has the same expectations when it comes to intimacy is an important part of ensuring you’re a good match.